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share her story. We arranged to meet at the next day and she came. On the meeting, we shared a
lot about her and her family. She reviled to me that she was a good student and she would like to
go back to school to complete her studies. The only fear was, she never wanted her classmate to
discover what happened to her. I told her that I would contact her professor and tell her she will
back to classes. I also told her that I will advocate for an extension of time for her assignment
since she was undergoing guidance and counseling section.
Most of the times, Breda thanked me as she felt that I was the only solution in her life. She said
to me that she was feeling safe and loved whenever I met her. I took this advantage to help her
regain her self-esteem and understand that it was not her mistake neither her parent’s mistake has
she had started hating them. Also, I aimed at making her realize that is important to be open to
her parent. She narrated to me the instance; it was on Friday she came home from school at
evening as it was normal, her brothers were not at home. As they were at the sitting room, her
cousin told her that it was his birthday and that he wanted to cerebrate with her. He had bought a
birthday cake and a whiskey. She had no reason to deny since she thought that he had no bad
intention to her. They ate the cake, after which she was forced by her cousin to take the whiskey,
after she was drunk her cousin removed her cloths and forced her to have sex. He warned her
that if she shared the information with anyone he would kill her.
During the section, Breda openly shared her in-depth life with me. She explained to me why she
had a boyfriend whom they were sexually active at her early age of 13-years-old. And why she
felt unsafe to be openly to her father. At her early ages, when her mother comes from work, she
used to come with several brands of alcohol. When they went upstairs to sleep with her brother,
her mother and father used to be left in the sitting room and when she asked they told her that it
was their time to do adult s. At school, as she was chatting with her friends, one of them
mentioned the term ‘adult s’. She was more concerned to know more, her friend told her that the
‘adult s’ are done when peoples her naked. Then she decided to confirm it from her parents. One
of the nights, she decided to go downstairs and check what was happening. She found them
naked smoking pipe. Lucky they did not notice her has she was hiding. After they finished
smoking pipe, they started having sex, at that moment, she called her mother, and she noticed
that her father and mother felt much embarrassed. Her mother commanded her to go back to her
room and never ever came downstairs at night without notifying them. The life continued well
until when she was at 13-years-old. At this time she had heard more about sex and as they
discussed with her friends. At this time she met Dan, he was 16-years old. They started dating
and having sex with her. When her parents noticed, they were so upset with her and they cut her
relationship with Dan forcefully. Her cousin was brought to her home so as to be security for her
when her parents were not there. The act made her so angry and she cut match sharing with her
parents. Because of this, she thought that her parents would not believe her even if she had told
them what happened to her. Also, she openly told me that in her culture they believed that the
girl was to be blamed at such instance. We discussed it and made her realize their believe was
wrong.
We set goals together, Breda wanted to rebuild her self-esteem again and do away with her
depression. Also, she wanted to build a good relationship with her parents and realize the
mistake they made to her. Moreover, she thought this will help her parents build parental care to
