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intending. An active listener attends to the speaker then repeats what the speaker has said in the
listeners own words. Thistle & McNaughton (2015) illustrate that one of the important factors in
listening is that a listener does not have to agree with what a speaker says. Many students are not
active listeners. The problem is not the shortcoming but the urge to practice being an active
listener. One of the major problems for such individuals is distractions. This can range from
thinking during the conversation to physical distraction such as a motor passing, people talking,
or trying to imagine what the speaker is thinking. Research shows that active listening is one of
the most important aspects of a person’s communication and self-expression. Its applications
include in community organizing, public interest advocacy, tutoring and making friends.
Active listening is an important aspect of a person’s social life. Social life can include
interpersonal relationship with other individuals to just having casual relationship with fellow
students (Weger Jr, Castle Bell, Minei & Robinson, 2014). There are many kinds of interactions
in an education institution. People can socialize in class, during games, while going for lunch or
while leaving school in the evening. Researchers show that the social life of a person suffers as a
result of two or more people failing to understand each other. The cause of this misunderstanding
arises from each person arguing without listening to one another. When making friends, being a
good listener plays a vital role.
Finally, Understanding what a person is saying helps an individual gauge what kind of
person the speaker is or his/her qualities. Relationships between different individuals involve
understanding one another and explaining oneself in case of a disagreement (Weger Jr, Castle
Bell, Minei & Robinson, 2014). Poor listeners have been known to have a poor social life. They
do not wait to understand what a speaker is talking about but rather chip in with their suggestions
on the topic. This usually creates an awkward conversation where the discussion lacks a proper