Ethics and Ethical Dilemmas
To behave ethically is to act in a way that respects the well-being of others. Often this
involves exhibiting compassion or beneficence. It consists of trying to treat people with the
kindness we would expect them to treat us with. Behaving ethically often consists in following
through on specific responsibilities. Academically and professionally, this means that we
might have an obligation to use what we learn in school to improve life for others or to do
good in our jobs or the world. We also have a responsibility to pass down the things we learn,
especially when this information might help increase the chances of someone’s survival or the
good of society (Beed, N.D.).
I was confronted with an ethical dilemma when I had to choose between working over the
summer to earn money for college or visiting my grandmother over summer break. On the one
hand, I felt like I had a duty to my boss and my co-workers. I had already been trained for the
job, and if I were to quit, my boss would have to spend valuable time training in a new worker.
This would also place a further burden on my co-workers because until a new person was
trained, I knew that they would have to pick up the slack.
On the other hand, I felt an obligation to my grandmother. I knew that if I were in her shoes
and I was in my nineties and that it was likely that I might not be able to see my grandchild for
many more years, I would want my grandchild to visit me. Because my grandmother was a
positive influence in my life, who had shown me great love and care over many years, I felt
both a great personal desire to spend time with her and a sense of duty to be by her side in her
last years if I could. Ultimately, I reasoned in a teleological way. (Newton, 2002) I looked at
the ultimate consequences of my actions, considered the implications of each choice and