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recognized type of family. The book Perspectives on Family Communication has
therefore helped in solving the question of what kind of nuclear families exist.
The second central theme in the book by Turner and West is about gender.
Gender is broadly discussed in the book as what it means to be a man or a woman.
Gender roles are given according to who is the father and who is the mother. The
physical appearances are also discussed where it is stated that fathers might appear
masculine, i.e. they tend to show less of their bodies compared to the females. Fathers are
considered the breadwinners of a family and are expected to do so each day. It is however
mentioned in the book that men's roles are continually decreasing as they are actively
involved in raising children rather than their usual expected activities. Parental care
mostly begins with the mothers (McHale, Updegraff and Tucker 2000). They are
expected to be the first to bond with their children in a family. They are responsible for
the transmission of values and the community senses to their children. Women in a
family are also expected to prepare food for the family, make house arrangements, clean
the house and the compound in which the family stays at and do other chores related in
the house. Female children have to look after their toddler siblings whenever the mother
is busy. Boys are expected to develop and learn their roles as males as early as they
could, but they are not allowed to move out when they are still immature. Children are
seen to acquire acceptable behavior and expectations from their parents. Though the roles
of the father are mentioned, they tend to level up and start nurturing their children thus,
picking up some of the functions of the females. In a family, it is essential that both
parents take part in the role of communication and socialization messages. The book
Perspective on Family Communication, therefore, enlightens the public of the gender and