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talk to each other. The couple argues on who should take their daughter to the bathroom. In the
entire story, Mrs. Das is shown hiding behind her sunglasses while Mr. Das is busy reading a
guidebook. All these activities show how this couple is incapable of talking with one another
properly. It is no surprise that their communication failure is also apparent in their relationship
with the children (Gross). For instance, Ronny who is their son does not heed his father’s order
when he gave a gum to a goat. This could be a result of Mr. Das not following through to enforce
his commands towards his children. Their children never listen whenever their parents talk just
like their parents.
The family’s inability to connect and communicate with one another is clear with how the
children are always running around as their parents are somewhere else. The couple silently
bears inworking marriages. We find out that Mrs. Das is aware of his loneliness and she seeks
his opinion on having a secret affair. Mr. Kapasi cannot, however, cure the guilt Mrs. Das has as
this guilt can only be freed by communication with her partner. This family lacks
Communication which is the greatest pillar of any relationship. The love they had when they
were young is no more. Mr. Das who once loved his wife is contented with his life, ignores clear
problems for either his happiness or for the sake of his children. Mr. Das doesn’t show his
concern to his wife’s dwindling affection and affair.
Another, important theme that is displayed in this story is that of Cultural differences
between the Indian-American and Indian. At a first look, the family looks to be Indian, but Mr.
Kapasi takes them as just tourists. Their manner of attitude and dress describes them despite the
tone of their skin. Mr. Kapasi remembers Dallas which was a television show whenever his fares
speak (Davis). The author tells us the guidebook that Mr. Das read was just labeled INDIA
signifying he was looking for his culture.Mr. Kapasi is surprised by the coolness Mrs. Das’s