Is A Childs Room Really Theirs, Or Is It Their Parents

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IS A CHILD’S ROOM REALLY THEIRS, OR IS IT THEIR PARENTS’?

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Is A Child’s Room Really Theirs, Or Is It Their Parents’?

Introduction

Is there a universe within purpose? We/I will only honor their confidentiality if and only

if she or he can choose or make a conclusion that I or we can believe in it as a good choice. In

this case, my 13-year boy was sneaking through the window every time after supper around 8.20

pm and goes to join his friends for a night out there to compete playing the FIFA 2018. His room

was the west side of our room he went for weeks without us sensing or doubting of any such

action was going on. Some of the friends were older and others same age so extend he felt

inexperienced. His “friends” while playing the used to smoke and use of drugs so as he joined

then often lured him to their behavior of using drugs and substance abuse. In some instance, they

used him to transport drugs to various clients in our estates (Harden 2000 p.52). He lacked the

experience and courage to carry out the assignment.

One day we decided to check on him at his room at 1.35am, he was gone. We decide to

search the room we found the prohibited substance under the mattress and others in his bag

packed in small size as if ready to be delivered to the client any moment. We I had a clue where

we his friends left so we decided to pay a visit and check if he was among them. Seeing us, he

changed his face and asked us what we want; we replied we are looking for you since we did not

find you in your room. He was furious about it and even confronted us and accused us of

entering his room without permission. I called the police on my on the boy for the protection

order (Veitch, Bagley, Ball, and Salmon 2006 p.389). We were able to get him out there with his

friends, but they were defiant and hostile to the police. The police helped us to straight the boy as

they could. He changed for some time but later he got out again, and they did their stuff

smoking, taking alcohol and prohibited drugs. At this time he ended up in the hospital for alcohol

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poisoning and attempted sodomy. The police taking part in prompt check on the party house they

found his so-called friend the police found them guilty of a violation of protective policy order,

and the adult boys ended up in jail, and other his minor “friends'” ended up in juvenile prison.

He was ill for 21 days, this time he learned a lesson, his “friends” had made it clear he

was nothing to them, they rejected him and abandoned him, mocked him. It took him over

220days to realize himself and come to senses and recovery to normal. He was stressed and

hopeless and reserved. Now he is full of recovery, self-accepted and values himself enough to

make his informed choices and rational decisions. He now does online schooling where he is

doing well in his education. If I had not let his room to be his possessions and was more insistent

about him being a kid at our home instead of letting him think he was old and mature enough to

have earned that level of confidentiality, he would probably not underwent what he did. Now we

both spend more time home together and get through and over that time but he is now open to us

now, and this has improved our relationship is excellent.

Conclusion

In our opinion, privacy is not about their rooms are out to bounce but mean you respect

them before enter their room knock and wait be invited or welcome in. If not Okayed in, privacy

it's not earned.

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References

Harden, J., 2000. There's no place like home: The public/private distinction in children's theorizing

of risk and safety. Childhood, 7(1), pp.43-59.

Veitch, J., Bagley, S., Ball, K. and Salmon, J., 2006. Where do children usually play? A qualitative

study of parents’ perceptions of influences on children's active free-play. Health &

place, 12(4), pp.383-393.

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