Mahr

Introduction
There are approximately 6-7.5 million Muslims in the United States who identify as
Americans
1
.This has promoted the use of Shari’a law as a source of law in the American Courts.
There is, however, a very evident rift regarding the constitutionality of anti-Shari’a laws. This is
because supporters of this notion claim that legislation against these laws would help to promote
and safeguard fundamental American values of liberty and freedom thus protecting the
constitutional rights of Muslims residing in America. On the other hand, supporters of the use of
Shari’a law in the American court system claim that a ban would directly infringe on the civil
liberties and religious freedoms of Muslims
2
. Shari’a law pertaining to marriage in particular has
often caused discord in American courts when it conflicted with state and federal law. Mahr has
been commonly used by one of the parties in the marriage as a tool of bargaining power in
negotiations about property and estate division and contractual obligations to the family
3
. Mahr
agreements are treated as contracts and as such the parties involved are bound by the terms
stipulated
1
in the agreement. This proves a problem as many contract laws are subjugated by the
peril of generalization thus not offering clear distinction when it comes to specific matters on
contract law
4
. This leaves Mahr open to individual interpretation by American jurists who are not
proficient in Islamic law which inevitably leads to faulty elucidation
5
. The primary thesis for this
1
Huda Qamar-al, United States Institute of Peace: Special Report, USIUP, Feb 2006, 1.
2
Kim Katherine Eun-Jung, Islamic Law in American Courts: Good, Bad, and Unsustainable Uses, Notre Dame Journal
of Law, Ethics & Public Policy Vol 28 287, 288.
3
Fournier Pascale, Flirting With God in Western Secular Courts: Mahr in the West, International Journal of Law,
Policy and the Family, Vol 24 67, 67.
4
Oman B. Nathan, Bargaining in the Shadow of God’s Law: Islamic Mahr Contracts and the Perils of Legal
Specialization, William and Mary Law School Research Paper No. 09-46 2, 3.
5
Sizemore A. Chelsea, Comment: Enforcing Islamic Mahr Agreements: The American Judge’s Interpretional
Dilemma Summer 2011 2, 2-3.
6
U.S. CONST. amend. I
7
Laluddin Hayatullah et al., The Contract of Marriage and Its Purposes from Islamic Perspective, Asian Social
Science Vol 10, ASS 139, 140.
research paper is that for Mahr to be used in the American court system, it must conform to state
and federal law concerning estate division, and in the event that it doesn’t should be promptly
disregarded. This is with a view to promoting the basic functions of law; fostering fairness in the
society and preservation of human rights.
Basic concepts in Islam
Contextual background
The American constitution protects the fundamental right of every citizen to freely practice their
religion. ‘Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion’
6
. This rudimentary
principle accords Muslims in America the right to use Mahr under Shari’a law as a contractual
marriage condition. Marriage in the Islam faith is highly regarded and viewed as the key to social
harmony,
‘The worth and significance of the institution of marriage is evident from the fact that it
provides a healthy environment for the maintenance of cordial relations between the
spouses and reciprocal love between them. It also helps one to maintain his/her chastity
and guard him/herself against committing the prohibited acts. Likewise, it represents the
best means of reproduction, multiplication and preservation of the family lineage’.
7
The Quran clearly reaffirms this in scripture
"O' mankind! Have consciousness of your Lord who has created you from a single soul.
From it He created your spouse and through them He populated the land with many men
and women. Have spiritual awareness of the One by whose Name you swear to settle
your differences and have respect for the wombs that bore you. Without doubt, Allah
(SwT) keeps watch over you all."(Surah 4, Verse 1)
8
2
Marriage is Islam is mainly a contractual agreement with the guidelines stipulated in Shari’a law.
Some of the guidelines include consent of both parties, presence of guardians, presence of two
witnesses, offering mahr
9
. Mahr is monetary or possession given by the groom to the bride as
security during the marriage and in case of divorce. ‘The mahr is meant to offer the bride a
financial security within and after the marriage. It is a divine order by the Almighty Allah’
10
.
More often than not, mahr has been used by husbands to unfairly give them an upper hand to
waiver their financial responsibility to their families after divorce. The wife isn’t usually
involved in mahr agreements and as such do not have any say in what their compensation should
be in the case of divorce
11
. This is legally unacceptable as in the case of marriage the parents act
as agents of the wife thus any agreement on their part should not be binding to her. ‘For a valid
contract to exist there must me mutual assent, offer, acceptance and consideration’
12
. It clearly
puts the women at a disadvantage as they are unaware of their fate in case of a divorce. On the
other hand, some women use mahr as a way to enrich themselves in case of divorce
13
.
The role of law in Islam
8
THE QUR’AN, 4:1 (Abdullah Yusuf Ali trans., 7
th
Am ed., Tahrike Tarsile Qur’an 2001)
9
See supra note 7 at 139
10
Ahmad Sahid Syed, A Critical Analysis of Dower (Mahr) in Islam, IOSR Journal of Humanities and Social Sciences,
IOSR-JHSS Vol 21 86, 86.
11
Blenkhorn E. Lindsey, Islamic Marriage Contracts in American Courts: Mahr Agreements as Prenuptials and Their
Effect on Muslim Women 189, 191
12
Husna Obaidi v. Khalid Qayoum, 154 Wash App. 609, 27616-3-III (2010)
13
Bani Mohammed Bawal & Pate A. Hamza, Dissolution of Marriage (Divorce) Under Islamic Law, Journal of Law,
Policy and Globalization, IISN Vol 42 138, 142.
14
Krawietz Birgit & Reifeld Helmut, Islam and The Rule of Law: Between Sharia and Secularization, Implenium 9, 9
15
See Id at 19
16
See Supra note 11 at 192
22
Al-Hibri Y. Azizah, Muslim Marriage Contract in American Courts, Minaret of Freedom Banquet
Modern law has distinctively differentiated state law from religion. This is not the case when it
comes to Muslim states who try to integrate religion and law. Shari’a which is the religious law
is incorporated with state law (qanun) differently from one country to another
14
. Shari’a law
encompasses matters pertaining to social decorum, governance and worship of Allah
15
. Family
law is however considered to be the ‘heart of shari’a’
16
. Some of the issues it deals with are
marriage and its preludes, divorce and inheritance. Shari’a laws are derived from the Quran
giving them divine implications in the Islam faith. It is, however, important to clearly distinguish
between cultural practices and beliefs and Islam
22
.
Brief introduction to Islamic marriage law
Marriage is an institution which legalizes the sexual relations between man and woman so as to
preserve the human species, the growth of descent, promotion of love and union between the two
parties and the mutual help to earn livelihood
17
3
. Marriage in Islam goes against norms set by
other religions. This is because to them marriage is mainly a contractual obligation whereas in
other religions such as Christianity and Hinduism it is viewed as a sacrament
18
. Most laws
17
Fitzgerald, Concept of Marriage Under Islam, 68
18
See Id
19
Gerli Allison, Living Happily Ever After in a Land of Separate Church and State: Treatment of Islamic Marital
Contracts, Islamic Marital Contracts Vol 26 113, 113
20
In the book Introduction to the Holy Quran, Abd Al-Rahman Doi explains Nikkah as ‘conjunction or uniting. In the
Islamic legal system it implies a marriage contract in the presence of a minimum of two males.’ When translated
directly from Indonesian it means marriage.
21
See Supra 19 at 153
23
Al-Hibri Y. Azizah, Muslim Marriage Contract in American Courts, Minaret of Freedom Banquet
24
See Id
25
See Id
26
The ‘Holy Prophet’ refers to the Prophet Mohhamed, founder of the Islam faith. Muslims consider him to be
God’s messenger and prophet. ‘SAW’ is a standard Muslim expression of love and respect for the prophet. It
means ‘May Allah’s blessings and peace be upon him.’
27
See Supra note 13 at 138
28
See Id at 138
29
See Id at 138. Talaq when directly translated into English means to untie or free.
30
See Id at 138
31
See Id at 138
appertaining to marriage in the United Stated are drawn from English laws which have their
roots in the Christian faith
19
. This makes it more difficult to integrate shari’a laws in the
American court system. It also discourages legal professionals from comprehensively studying
the topic as they will probably never have to refer to it.
Marriage in Islam is known as nikkah
20
. As marriage is merely a contractual marriage
21
the basic
essentials of a contract are required to make the marriage valid; in this case those essentials are
your name and the name of your spouse, the names of two witnesses, the name of the imam, the
amount of the mahr
23
. Modern contracts allow the parties to add any expectations that they may
have of their partner in the marriage
24
. Mahr is initially meant to be a gift from the groom and his
family to the wife and not as a means of buying her off
25
. According to Shari’a, mahr is to be
paid in two instalments: muqaddam is to be paid upon marriage as a tribute to the wife while
mu’akhkar is the postponed dower that is paid in full if the husband dies or in the event of
divorce to provide for the wife
26
(mahrasprenuptialspg201). The deferred dower is the part that
most American courts have failed to distinguish from prenuptial agreements.
Different types of divorce
Divorce is looked down upon especially in the Islamic faith with the Holy Prophet (SAW)
26
saying that of all things permitted by law divorce is the worst.
27
. The basis for divorce in Islam is
incompatibility of the spouses and inability to cohabit
28
. There are three types of divorce in
Islam: talaq
29
is when a man initiates divorce, li’an is when a man accuses his wife of adultery
and khul’I is when a wife initiates divorce
30
. Payment of mahr is heavily dependent on whether
the couple had consummated their marriage at the time of divorce and on who asks for the
divorce
31
.
Talaq is a manifestation of the patriarchy present in Islam customs pertaining to marriage. This is
because the husband has absolute power to end the marriage without causal circumstances
driving his decision
32
4
. Different schools of Islamic law interpret talaaq in their own way.
According to some Sunni
33
5
schools of jurisprudence each pronouncement of talaaq should be
followed by a waiting period of three iddah
34
in which efforts to rekindle the couple’s
relationship are permitted, either by the couple themselves or the relatives. Engaging in sexual
relationships in this waiting period is prohibited and in case it happens is considered as an act of
reconciliation by the couple
35
. The Hannafi School however allows the practice of triple talaq
where the husband is permitted to declare divorce thrice in one sitting so as to permanently
divorce with wife
36
.
Khul’i is considerably harder to carry out compared to talaq. This is because women are
supposed to have substantive claims as to why they want to get divorced
37
. In many cases she is
compelled to return her repay her dowry and marriage expenses
38
and release custody of the
children to the husband
39
. It is clear that the Islamic system of divorce is biased towards the
husband’s favor. This mainly stems from misquoted interpretation of the Quran which gives both
32
See Supra note 13 at 138
33
Sunni is one of the main factions of Islam belief whose disciples follow the Prophet Muhhamad’s way of life.
34
Iddah is the period that a woman must wait after her husband’s death or divorce before remarrying. The
purpose of this period is to ensure that she wasn’t expectant and if she was to know the child’s father. The iddah
of a divorced woman is three months if she was not pregnant but if she is the iddah lasts until childbirth.
35
See supra note 13 at 138
36
See supra note 13 at 138
37
See supra note 13 at 141
38
See supra note 13 at 141
39
If the child is over seven years custody automatically goes to the father. In case the mother is granted custody
she lives with the child until he/she is seven years old then they go to the father.
40
And in no wise covet those things in which Allah Hath bestowed His gifts More freely on some of you
than on others: To men is allotted what they earn, and to women what they earn: But ask Allah of His
bounty. For Allah hath full knowledge of all things. (Surah An-Nisa’ , 32)
men and women equal status but differentiates their roles
40
. On expounding these roles, men
deem themselves more important as their roles are seen to be given more importance.
Islamic marriage contracts in American courts
Marriage in America is governed by both state and federal laws. This is because the tenth
amendment
41
clearly states that powers not responsibilities not exclusively given to the United
States or prohibited to the states are accorded to the states. Individual states are allowed to have
their own marriage laws but the federal government is able to interfere with these laws in matters
regarding interstate commerce or matters within the Bill of Rights. As a result of evident
remnants of the influence of the perception of Christian marriage on marriage laws in America
41
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it has been difficult to integrate concepts of marriage from other faiths into the American courts.
Divorce has become prevalent in the United States with approximately 42% of marriages that
take place between the ages of 15 and 46 ending up in divorce by the age of 46
42
. This trend also
applies to Islamic marriages as statistics showed that as of 2010, 21.3% of Muslim marriages in
the United States led to divorce
43
. With such a large number it is crucial that American courts
understand all issues pertinent with Islamic marriage so as to enable them to make competent
rulings when it comes to these divorce cases. Divorce in Islamic marriage is particularly messy
when it comes to estate division as Shari’a laws do not offer fair compensation of both parties by
dividing assets equally. Each party leaves the marriage with their own personal property
44
. This
often puts the Muslim women at a grave disadvantage as their role as the caretaker in the home
often leads to them becoming stay at home mothers.
41
See Supra note
42
labour and statistics bookmark
43
Muslimmarriagesinwesternworld pg53
44
rules on divorce
Analysis
With mahr agreements being prerequisites to marriage
45
7
, their value is set at a time when
nobody is sure of future financial situations either within or outside the marriage. Most American
courts misinterpret mahr agreements as prenuptial contracts
46
leading them to making decisions
from a point of misrepresented facts. Prenuptial agreements by definition are for the purpose of
property distribution, alimony and other financial matters to take part in the event of divorce
47
.
This is clearly different from the purpose of mahr and yet jurists in America still impose it as one
as a result of viewing it as foreign and incomprehensible.
In other cases mahr is used by materialistic women to exploit men by claiming high amounts of
mahr
48
and asking for divorces after consummation of marriage
49
. These appalling incidences
plainly show how much mahr has been misused by parties in court and how the legal system has
taken minimal action to remedy its occurrence.
i. Husbands invoking the marriage contract in American courts
Mahr has more often than not been used by men as a means of absolving themselves from the
pecuniary duty of maintaining their wives after divorce
50
(mahrasprenuptialspg201). This is
because they pay a onetime predetermined amount instead of regular payments as is more
common in alimony agreements
51
(alimonypaymentrulesbookmark).
45
mahrasprerequisite
46
mahrasprenuptials
47
premarital agreements
48
49
Mahr can only be paid in case of divorce if the couple had sexual relations before they split up.
50
51
In the case of Parveen Chaudry v. Hanif Chaudry
52
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the husband (Haniff) invoked the mahr
agreement they had signed as they got married in Pakistan in a New Jersey court. The judge held
the decision to uphold the terms of the mahr agreement signed under their Pakistan marriage
contract. This left Parveen without any alimony or child support from her psychiatrist husband
whom she had devoted fourteen years to.
In stark contrast to the decision of this court was the case of Ahmad Shaban v. Sherifa Shaban
53
.
In this case the husband (Ahmad) is still the party that invoked the mahr agreement as stipulated
in their marriage contract that was signed in Egypt. The court revoked his submission of the
mahr agreement as it could not be described as a prenuptial agreement thus making him bound to
give her an equal share of his estate and pay attorney fees.
The rulings of the cases depict utter discrepancies despite having similar circumstances. In the
case of Ahmad v. Sherifa the court
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