appertaining to marriage in the United Stated are drawn from English laws which have their
roots in the Christian faith
19
. This makes it more difficult to integrate shari’a laws in the
American court system. It also discourages legal professionals from comprehensively studying
the topic as they will probably never have to refer to it.
Marriage in Islam is known as nikkah
20
. As marriage is merely a contractual marriage
21
the basic
essentials of a contract are required to make the marriage valid; in this case those essentials are
your name and the name of your spouse, the names of two witnesses, the name of the imam, the
amount of the mahr
23
. Modern contracts allow the parties to add any expectations that they may
have of their partner in the marriage
24
. Mahr is initially meant to be a gift from the groom and his
family to the wife and not as a means of buying her off
25
. According to Shari’a, mahr is to be
paid in two instalments: muqaddam is to be paid upon marriage as a tribute to the wife while
mu’akhkar is the postponed dower that is paid in full if the husband dies or in the event of
divorce to provide for the wife
26
(mahrasprenuptialspg201). The deferred dower is the part that
most American courts have failed to distinguish from prenuptial agreements.
Different types of divorce
Divorce is looked down upon especially in the Islamic faith with the Holy Prophet (SAW)
26
saying that of all things permitted by law divorce is the worst.
27
. The basis for divorce in Islam is
incompatibility of the spouses and inability to cohabit
28
. There are three types of divorce in
Islam: talaq
29
is when a man initiates divorce, li’an is when a man accuses his wife of adultery
and khul’I is when a wife initiates divorce
30
. Payment of mahr is heavily dependent on whether
the couple had consummated their marriage at the time of divorce and on who asks for the
divorce
31
.