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victim’s self-esteem (Tanenbaum 25). Gender inequality at the time when the author was
young did not have influence and cases of disparity were evident and obvious. Then, no
internet has now contributed in the sensitization of many females.
Girls suffered in hiding and isolation since there were no means to pass information
and share. Hence, men would demean girls with terms such as “slut and whore” was rampant
but in small scales. Unlike currently, the internet has developed immensely, and people use
the social media uncontrollably to shame some females. Therefore, as the struggle becomes
easy because of social platforms, the size of the battle also increases because of the easy
access and spread of personal information (Tanenbaum 37). The experience in school where
the author interacted with individuals from various backgrounds helped in initiating the urge
to research on the issue. At the age of a young adult, the cases of shaming were rampant and
devastating.
Changes over the Years
Contrary to the early years of the author’s publishing process, the words like a slut
now bear a somehow different connotation. Previously, the primary concern was purely the
sexuality of the females. Currently, the sexuality issues have changed to become non-
existent. Additionally, there are increased cases of universal passion rising. Therefore, no one
would judge the other by sexual activities. Alternatively, people have coined the meaning of
slut to demonstrate to inappropriateness in any circumstance. Such include diverse issues like
dressing, make-ups, hairstyles, traits, and peers. Females have to tread carefully to remain
within what people would consider decent and not archaic or annoying. Slight overdoing of
any of the entities above would lead to one qualifying as a slut (Tanenbaum 48). Therefore,
even as female conduct herself to impress the man, there should be caution not to overdo and
risk becoming a whore.
Internet Influence