GENDER ROLES IN THE VICTORIAN AGE 3
towards marriage implies that women never married for love but for material gain and
reputation. Algernon says, “Well…girls never marry the men they flirt with. Girls don’t think it
right.” It is clear that women got married for different reasons apart from (Meijers, 2009).
However, in My Last Duchess, the author exposes the view of gender role of during the
time. Women got married so that they could be identified with their husband and a man who had
a beautiful wife was highly respected and this is evident by the fact that men married so that
women would “decorate their walls” (Babamiri, 2017). Marriage is not seen as the depiction of
love between a man and a woman but a partnership with roles divided between the couple.
However, women were specifically married to make men’s lives better. Duke illustrates his wife
as a painting that decorates his house; women were like pieces of art that were devoid of life,
feelings, and passions- they were men’s belongings. Duke looks at a sculpture and says:
"Neptune… Claus of Innsbruck cast in bronze for me!" It is evident that he thought of his wife as
beautiful bronze sculpted to impress him (Babamiri, 2017).
In the Importance of Being Earnest, Lady Bracknell brings to light a new meaning about
the role of women in the Victorian age. She ridicules the notion of marriage for love instead of
getting married and doing one's duty. When Lady Bracknell hears the engagement between Jack
and Gwendolen, she retorts, “Pardon me, you are not engaged to anyone. When you do become
engaged to someone, I,…will inform you of the fact.” She views marriage of her daughter as an
opportunity to gain wealth and honor hence she discourages her marriages with a poor man-Jack.
In trying to chose a suitable partner for her daughter, Lady Bracknell shows that women did not
take an active part in choosing their marriage partners but their parents chose for them (Meijers,
2009). Lady Bracknell believes that a man should prove that he is able to support her daughter
which supports the perception that women had no role in marriage; they stayed at home and